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How to spot unhealthy behaviour in the bedroom

When it comes to sex, your partner can do things that wouldn’t be classed as rape or sexual assault, but could still be uncomfortable or even damaging. These behaviours could lead to more unpleasant experiences, so if you’re unsure whether your bedroom antics are 100% healthy, read on.

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Sometimes something doesn't feel right

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Updated on 14-Mar-2017

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