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How to come out

So, after a lot of soul searching you’ve worked out you’re gay, lesbian, bisexual or transgender. But how do you tell this to the people you love? Coming out is scary, so The Mix is here to hold your hand.

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Next Steps

  • The Albert Kennedy Trust supports LGBT people aged 16-25-years-old who are homeless or living in a hostile environment. AKT has offices in London (call on 020 7831 6562), Manchester (0161 228 3308) and Newcastle (0191 281 0099).
  • LGBT Youth Scotland has lots of great advice articles about LGBT issues, as well as running supportive live chats online. Text on 07786 202 370.
  • Queer Youth Network gives you the opportunity to meet and chat with other LGBT young people online.
  • Switchboard LGBT+ Helpline offers a range of help services for the LGBT community, including message boards and a helpline. 0300 330 0630
  • Chat about this subject on our Discussion Boards.
  • Need help but confused where to go locally? Download our StepFinder iPhone app to find local support services quickly.

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coming out| sexuality

By Holly Bourne

Updated on 29-Sep-2015

Photo of painted hands from Shutterstock

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